May 23, 2012

Radical Lifestyles

Radical lifestyles ahead
Yesterday, part of our influx of simplicity seekers was from theminimalistmom.com who graciously mentioned us in her blog about "living with 2 pairs of jeans, no car, no debt, more time and less stress."

NBA was mentioned in a post about people who are living different lives from the mainstream. People who are spending less, having less, and doing more of what they enjoy.

NBA's description in the post was quite accurate: "Radical living without buying anything except groceries and guitar strings and not selling anything." However, my first thought was, "Radical? Is our lifestyle really that radical?".

But of course, it is.

Canadian's household debt-to-income ratio is 150%. Yes, most of us are spending more than we make. All that money is being borrowed to buy more and more stuff to fill larger and larger houses. This is the norm today, and compared to this state of affairs we do represent a radically different way of living.

We have no debt, and have always enjoyed the freedom of being renters. Our current home is small, and when we need more room we just get rid of stuff. This frees up space - we do not need to 'move up' to acquire more.

We may buy a bit more than guitar strings and groceries, but not much. It feels very natural, but does sound radical when I think about it. But what are the real radical lifestyles on this little planet of ours?

If we were thinking soberly, living a high-impact 5-planet lifestyle would be considered the most radical of all ways of living, and what NBA advocates wouldn't appear as drastic or extreme.

Reaching sustainability will be difficult as long as excessively luxurious lifestyles are seen by society as 'normal' and the standard to which we should all aspire.

The world needs more radicals, more anti-authoritarians, more misfits and malcontents. And yes, theminimalistmom, we include you in this honourable continuum of people daring to live differently.

Such brave folks are needed to show the rest of us that we can overthrow our desires and obtain freedom from ourselves, as well as from those who wish to exploit us.

I don't mind being seen as radical, despite the negative connotations that come with this word in these times of high pressure conformity. I don't mind because I know that radicals create change.

Of course it is all relative, and when put up against the Amish, Linda and I are living a comparatively non-radical, luxurious lifestyle. We may seem radical, but we aren't that radical.

At least, not yet.

How radical are you willing to get in your efforts to simplify your life?

4 comments:

  1. I like how you question whether you really think it is all that radical. I never considered myself radical in frugalness anyways until I get interested and really involved in my financial blog.

    Truth be told I am radical in many ways from our lifestyle, our choice to live without furntiture for a 5 year period in our lives, to not only homeschooling but unschooling, to a non mainstream spirituality.

    It is not that I set out to be so non mainstream, it is just what seemed right and natural bringing me the greatest joy! Keep up the wonderful posts, love your blog!

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    1. When we first came to the coast we were camping. When we decided to stay we furnished our apartment with our camping gear.

      We had lawn chairs with a plastic bin for a coffee table in the living room. In the bedroom air mattresses and sleeping bags.

      Our kitchen contained only our limited camp kitchen contents, but I could prepare anything we wanted.

      That was only for a few weeks, though, not 5 years. Still, we felt pretty free, like adventurers, or nomads.

      It is great when you get to the point of it feeling "right and natural", and you are doing it for the joy it brings.

      Then it becomes effortless, in a way.

      Thanks for your support. We are glad you are part of the NBA community.

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  2. Pushing boundaries is important. Just so long as I'm not forcing my will on anyone else. If If I need to use force to exert my will, then I've already lost all of my persuaisive ability.

    I once had a friend who thought she could convince me to be vegan by telling me that I was "stupid" not to go veg. Well, she's not my friend anymore and she didn't convince me of the virtues of the vegan life. My sister in law has taken a much gentler approach and is having more luck pulling me over to her way of seeing things.

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    1. You are right - it has to be carrot, not stick.

      I approve of the gentle approach as the only one that will yield positive, lasting benefits.

      Aggression can be toxic. I always try to balance my outrage with my more gentle side.

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