5 Reasons to Embrace Solitude

In a world that clamours for attention, where the hum of technology drowns out the whispers of the wild, I’ve found my sanctuary in solitude. 

As a seasoned wanderer on the road less travelled, I want to share my hard-won wisdom on how to thrive in the quiet, away from the chaos of modern life.

1. Liberation

Let’s get one thing straight: solitude isn’t a prison; it’s a liberation. While most folks fear the silence, I’ve come to revel in it. When you strip away the distractions—those incessant notifications and social obligations—you uncover a treasure trove of self-discovery. In the stillness, I can hear my own thoughts, unfiltered and raw. It’s in these moments that I confront my dreams, my fears, and the freedom-loving spirit that refuses to be tamed.

2. Self-Sufficiency

Renouncing the modern world means shedding the shackles of dependency. In my simple existence, I’ve learned to rely on my own two hands. 

Whether I’m whipping up a wholesome meal from my garden’s bounty or McGyvering something useful from scrap, there’s a primal satisfaction in self-sufficiency. It’s a reminder that I don’t need the system to survive; I can carve my own path, one that’s free from the corporate grind and the consumerist trap.

3. Nature

There’s no better friend than the great outdoors. In solitude, I’ve forged a bond with the land that nourishes me. I spend my days wandering through the woods, feeling the earth beneath my feet and the wind on my face. Nature is a wild teacher, showing me the rhythms of life and the beauty of simplicity. In those quiet moments, I feel a part of something larger—a web of existence that transcends the noise of civilization.

4. Authenticity

When you’re alone, you can finally be yourself—no masks, no pretenses. In the wild embrace of solitude, I’ve discovered my true passions. I explore the depths of my imagination without the weight of judgment. This is where authenticity thrives, where the soul can dance freely, unencumbered by societal expectations. It’s a rebellion against conformity, a declaration of personal independence.

5. Community

Now, don’t get me wrong—solitude doesn’t have to mean total isolation. While I cherish my time alone, I also recognize the value of community. Meaningful connections can spring from the most unexpected of places. 

While I may walk my own path, I’m not alone in my quest for a better world. We’re all part of this grand adventure, each of us a silk thread in the web of life.

As the proverb says, ‘’If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go with others.''

Conclusion

Embracing solitude has been my greatest act of defiance against a world that demands conformity. It’s taught me the art of self-sufficiency, deepened my connection with nature, and allowed me to live authentically. 

If you’re feeling the weight of the world pressing down on you, I urge you to seek out the quiet. In the solitude, you will find the strength and clarity to reclaim your life and live it on your own terms.

The De-crapification of Life

Sad to say but everything has been transformed in the great crapification of life. I do believe that it has been happening for my entire lifetime, and probably began before I joined Planet Crap 63 years ago.

Many of our formerly trusted institutions, having been taken over by corruption and greed, are now doing more harm than good. They have been crapified.

Stuff is crapified.

Food is crapified.

Democracy is crapified.

Education is crapified.

Medicine is crapified.

Banking and finance are crapified.

War is crapified.

Jobs are crapified.

Houses are crapified.

Cars are crapified.

Free speech is crapified.

Policing and justice are crapified.

Western civilization itself has been crapified to the core.

While we were all busy working our crap jobs to get crap wages with which to buy crap stuff, the powers that shouldn't be crapified on everything they could get their hands on.

All that was good went down the memory hole to be replaced with you know what. 

The crapification was intentional, done to destroy everything we hold dear. The destruction was done on purpose so that they could "build back better" (remember that crap slogan?). 

But better for whom? For the 1%, that is who.

It doesn't have to be this way, but we have to pay attention in order for things to change. We have to first admit that there is a problem, and that problem is a society-wide distraction by the shiny trinkets of crapsumerism.

At least now as the flow of crappy consumer stuff is slowing down, and as we are less able to afford all that crap because the crap jobs with crap wages are disappearing, we will have more time to pay attention to what is going on in reality. 

You know - the non crap world that most of us don’t even recognize any more.

When we wake up to it all, there is going to be one heck of a crap storm unleashed on those responsible for our sad state of affairs. The clouds are already gathering.

That people-powered disruption will flush all the crap, and the crappers, down the drain. Then WE will decide what to build back for ourselves.

Will 2025 be the beginning of the de-crapification of life?

That is up to us.

Today is a good day to flush the system.

Dumb Consumer Item of the Month - Violent Entertainment

Today’s world is an obviously violent place, so why add to that by indulging in consumerism's dumbest and most disgusting product—violent entertainment?

There is power in choosing non-violent entertainment, and that is exactly what we have done in my household.

Several years ago, we banned violent products from our home, figuring that there is no possible way that they can be good for us.

The content we consume can significantly impact our mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being.

As advocates for simple living, self-care, and harmony, it’s essential to reflect on the types of entertainment we allow into our lives.

One powerful step toward fostering a peaceful environment is to consciously choose to avoid violent entertainment.

Research suggests that exposure to violent entertainment can lead to desensitization, increased aggression, and diminished empathy.

Our brains, equipped with mirror neurons, respond to the actions we observe in the same way, whether real or fictional.

This means that when we watch violent scenes, we may experience emotional responses that can affect our perceptions of the world around us. It is hard to believe that it isn’t traumatizing whether we realize and admit it, or not.

Over time, this can contribute to a culture that normalizes aggression and undermines our collective sense of compassion.

By banning violent entertainment in our homes, we take a proactive stance in promoting peace and harmony.

This choice not only sets a positive example for family members, especially children, but also encourages the exploration of alternative content that uplifts and inspires.

Imagine filling your living space with stories that celebrate kindness, creativity, and understanding—narratives that foster connection rather than conflict.

Or are we at the point where we think programming without violence is boring?

Choosing non-violent entertainment opens the door to meaningful conversations about the media we consume.

It encourages us to think critically about the messages conveyed through our screens and to seek out content that aligns with our values of empathy and compassion.

By engaging in discussions about why we avoid violent themes, we cultivate a deeper understanding of the impact of media on our lives and society.

Change begins at home. By making conscious choices about the entertainment we consume, we contribute to a culture that values peace and harmony.

Our individual actions can inspire others to reflect on their viewing habits, creating a ripple effect that extends beyond our households.

In a world that can sometimes feel chaotic, embracing non-violent entertainment is a simple yet powerful way to nurture our well-being and promote a more compassionate society.

Let us commit to fostering environments filled with positivity, understanding, and love—one choice at a time.

In time, those choices will be reflected in a more peaceful world for all of us.

Protect yourself and your family—say NO to violent entertainment in all its varied forms, and see a particularly toxic and dumb consumer item bite the dust.

And if you really must be witness to violence, just watch the news. There is lots of it there. Not recommended for children.

Survive and Thrive in 2025

2024 was a year for the record books, and not in a good way. At least we survived to see another one. Many didn’t.

After SARSCov2, we were promised a return to normalcy if all 7 billion of us complied with draconian, and likely illegal, measures. 

But here we are five years later—are we “back to normal” yet? 

Honestly, I didn’t think normal was all that great to begin with, but since 2021, we’ve spiraled from a bad normal to the worst normal of my lifetime.

I won’t bore you with the laundry list of reasons why this is the case; you already know, and I don’t want to drag you down further. 

The truth is, the West has failed catastrophically over the past four or five years, and 2024 put the cherry on top of this dismal cake when it not only condoned global atrocities, but also aided and abetted them with military support and hundreds of billions in taxpayer dollars.

So, what do we do in 2025? 

This fresh year offers a chance to make changes for the better, but it’s going to take more than just wishful thinking. 

I’m committed to working toward the best possible world for myself and others, all while preparing for the worst. It’s a balancing act that we can’t afford to ignore.

I’m done with the hollow promises of a society that’s lost its way. I will survive and thrive despite what the powers that shouldn’t be have planned for us.

I’ll focus on authenticity, self-care, and simplicity. I’ll seek out genuine connections and support smaller scale systems that get work done, rather than getting lost in the noise of a culture wracked with corruption and superficiality.

Let’s face it: the old ways aren’t working. It’s time to carve out a new path, one that prioritizes real change over empty slogans. 

Moving to a more simple lifestyle in consumer nations will be an important part of the solution, and one that anyone anywhere can adopt with immediate results.

Downsizing in tough times makes perfect sense. That means getting rid of debt by focusing on the essentials. Learning to do things for ourselves, and creating  systems of mutual aid on our way toward  living better with less. 

In my experience, it will also increase the enjoyment of life generally. 

How will you survive and thrive in 2025? Let us know in a comment below.

Toward a North American Lay Flat Movement

If you are not familiar with the Chinese Lying Flat Movement, you can read our post on the topic here. It provides some background to today's discussion.

The "Tang Ping" movement, which translates to "lying flat" in English, emerged in China as a response to societal pressures, particularly among young people. 

It advocates for a lifestyle that rejects the intense competition and high expectations prevalent in modern society, particularly in terms of career success, education, and consumerism. 

Instead, proponents of the movement promote a more minimalist and laid-back approach to life, emphasizing personal well-being over societal expectations.

The Not Buying Anything blog would like to propose a North American Lying Flat Movement to begin in this new year of 2025.

As members of the North American Lay Flat Movement, we would declare our commitment to a life of intentional simplicity, well-being, and authentic connection. 

In a world that often equates worth with relentless productivity and consumption, this movement redefines success on our own terms.

Proposed Principles:

1. Prioritize Well-Being: We believe that mental and physical health are paramount. We reject the notion that our value is determined by our output and instead embrace a lifestyle that nurtures our well-being.

2. Embrace Simplicity: We advocate for a life free from the clutter of excessive consumerism. By simplifying our lives, we create space for what truly matters—relationships, experiences, and personal growth.

3. Challenge Societal Norms: We will question the status quo that glorifies overwork and material accumulation. We stand against the pressures that dictate how we should live and strive to create a culture that values balance and fulfillment.

4. Foster Community: We recognize the importance of connection and support. We commit to building a community that uplifts one another, shares our journeys and celebrates our choices to live authentically.

5. Promote Sustainability: We acknowledge our responsibility to the planet. By choosing to consume less and live more mindfully, we contribute to a sustainable future for ourselves and generations to come.

6. Live Intentionally: We choose to be present in our lives, and make conscious decisions that align with our values. We reject the notion of "hustle culture" and embrace a pace of life that allows for reflection, joy, and creativity.

Our Call to Action:

We invite all who resonate with our vision to join us in this movement. Let us lay flat against the pressures of modern life and rise together in a new paradigm of living. Together, we can create a world where simplicity, well-being, and connection are at the forefront of our lives.

In solidarity, we choose to lay flat, and in doing so, we rise.

Note - thank you to our Chinese brothers and sisters in simplicity for leading the way with their original rebellious and courageous act to do what they can, and choose to lay flat rather than conform to consumerism and wage slavery.