April 4, 2025

"Sian Lah - Just Do Enough"

Studio apartment in Singapore: Compact living in the Lion City

 


Lately, we’ve noticed something interesting, and very welcome, in our little corner of Blogspot: thousands of page views generated from Singapore. 

The Lion City, with its shiny skyline and hawker stalls, seems to have a soft spot for this "not buying anything" life. We’re flattered—and curious enough to engage in a little on-line research.

What’s bringing you here? Is it the high cost of living, the packed MRTs, or maybe just a feeling that’s hard to pin down?

Whatever it is, we’ve got a hunch it might tie into a phrase we’ve discovered due to your visits: "Sian lah, just do enough. 

That totally vibes with what we’ve been all about on this blog since 2008.

If you’re not from Singapore, "sian" is a Hokkien word that means "tired," "bored," or "fed up," all rolled into one. Add "lah," and it’s like a verbal shrug: "I’m over it, man. 

Then there’s "just do enough"—not slacking, but not killing yourself either. It’s about hitting the mark and stopping there. It's about know what is enough, and what is best for that elusive work/life balance.

Together, it’s a mood we’re betting you know: that moment you see your bills, your boss’s latest email, or the BTO price and go, "Sian lah, just do enough lah."

Sound familiar? It’s got echoes of what we talk about here. This blog’s always been about saying no to the grind of buying more, owning more, wanting more. 

In Singapore, we have learned, that grind’s got a name—the "5Cs": cash, car, credit card, condo, country club. It’s the dream they sell you from the PSLE pressure cooker exam to paycheck, but it comes with a catch: long hours, big loans, and a life stuffed with things you don’t need. 

"Sian lah" feels like the moment you see through it. 

Why chase a car when the MRT’s fine? Why splurge on a $5 bubble tea when kopi at the hawker’s 80 cents? Just do enough—and keep your sanity.

There is evidence of this attitude online
where Singaporeans talk about coasting instead of climbing. 

Some call it a "lay flat" vibe, like China’s "tang ping," but quieter. No big protests, just a personal "bo chup" (don’t care) to the rat race. 

Low marriage rates, folks living with parents into their 30s, or picking Grab rides over a 9-to-5. It may not be a movement at this point, but it’s real. And it fits this blog like a glove. 

You don’t need a condo to live well; an HDB flat’s small space forces you to keep it simple. You don’t need new gadgets every year; fix what you’ve got and call it a day. Less stuff, less stress - that sounds like our kind of freedom.

Singapore’s a funny place for this, though. It’s rich but pricey, modern but cramped. Yet that "sian lah" streak sneaks through. It’s not dropping out; it’s drawing a line. 

And that’s where we meet: this blog’s about living light, and "just do enough" is about working light. Same goal, different slang.

So, to our Singapore friends: does this ring true? Are you here because the "not buying anything" life feels like an antidote to the hustle? Maybe you’re tired of ads, or saving for something real, or just want to declutter your flat, and your head. We’d love to hear. 

How does "sian lah, just do enough" fit your days? 

Drop a comment and keep it chill, lah, no pressure. After all, that’s the point: live simple, spend less, and let the rest go. Maybe that’s why you’re here. And if it is, we’re glad to have you along for the ride.




March 31, 2025

The Shoelace That Snaps: Bukowski’s Case for Living Simpler



 

Charles Bukowski’s poem the shoelace” recommends we don’t sweat the big stuff: 
"...it’s not the large things that
send a man to the 
madhouse, death he’s ready for, or
murder, incest, robbery, fire, flood…
no, it’s the continuing series of small tragedies
that send a man to the madhouse…
not the death of his love
but a shoelace that snaps 
with no time left…
the dread of life
is that swarm of trivialities 
Forget the headlines—USA, Russia, or the emergency of the hour. Bukowski’s point is sharper: it’s the snapped shoelace, the late bill, the broken zipper that grinds you down. 

The small stuff, multiplied by a world hooked on excess, becomes a quiet killer.

Here’s the logic: simplicity can outsmart it. 

Own less, and there’s less to fail you. 

Slow down, and a busted lace won’t ruin your day. 

Minimalism isn’t just a middle finger to the system—it’s a shield against that swarm. 

So, what’s your shoelace? And what could you ditch to keep it from snapping?