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| Note to self. |
Retail Therapy Patient: "Hey, I bought something!"
Minimalist: "And?"
Patient: "And now I'm happy."
Minimalist: "Are you really?"
Patient: "Actually, I'm not feeling as happy as I was when I first bought it."
Minimalist: "That is because that kind of happiness is temporary at best."
Patient: "Oh, now I am sad and I have buyer's remorse."
A while later - "I bought something else, and now I'm happy again. Oh, hold on..."
Minimalist: "Argh. I can help you with that."
Retail Therapy is the act of buying something to make one feel better. It does actually work... for a very brief moment in time.
The effect quickly wears off, while the credit card balance tends to linger. Buyer's remorse soon sets in. The cycle repeats.
If you are feeling down, here are 5 therapies more effective than buying stuff you don't want or need just to feel better from the initial rush.
Nature Therapy - go for a walk in the park or some other natural area. Sit quietly. Breathe. If you can't do that, look out a window with a view, or look at pictures of nature. They all have lasting benefits for mood improvement.
Conversation Therapy - meet with a good friend and talk about your feelings.
Exercise Therapy - a 30 minute workout does wonders for your state of mind. It does not have to cost anything, and you will be improving your health at the same time. Can be combined with any, or all of the other forms of therapy mentioned here.
Meditation Therapy - sit quietly, and clear your mind for 20 minutes.
Garden Therapy - gardening is good for every aspect of a person. After a session you not only feel better, but will also have healthy food to eat, which will further improve your mood.
Repeat as necessary. Lasting mood improvement guaranteed, and you don't have to buy anything. No buyer's remorse, no debt.


























