tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4312736954468978064.post791832816942365596..comments2024-03-28T01:51:22.367-03:00Comments on Not Buying Anything: Simple Living Soul MateGregg Koephttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09349453216733070775noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4312736954468978064.post-27686121626974579452015-04-18T00:00:05.582-03:002015-04-18T00:00:05.582-03:00Happy Belated Anniversary! I totally agree with Mi...Happy Belated Anniversary! I totally agree with Miss Marla.<br /><br />Repeating you hear because you said it so well..."...one of the biggest challenges a simple living individual has is meeting someone who is compatible with such a lifestyle. Time after time on websites and blogs I have seen people lamenting the lack of potential mates willing to embark on a life of voluntary simplicity." <br /><br />It is the greatest lack in my life and has been so most of my adult life. In the area where I live, even friends who aspire to live more simply, less materially are almost impossible to find. I've searched high and low, tired many things to find like-minded folks for years. I seem to have very little power to change it. At least for now. <br /><br />I'm hopeful that some big changes I am transitioning to will place me in situations to meet kindred spirits. The internet and especially your blog has helped tremendously. Yet face-to-face contact with people who have similar values to mine is elusive here. Thank you for mentioning this. <br /><br />It sounds like you guys had a wonderful anniversary true to the loving simple life you've carved and nurtured for so many years! I smiled when I read this post last month.<br />TerriAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4312736954468978064.post-30712306783621611562015-03-22T22:49:54.416-03:002015-03-22T22:49:54.416-03:00Miss Marla,
I am happy that our relationship come...Miss Marla,<br /><br />I am happy that our relationship comes through in our blog. Thank you for noting it, and letting us know. Linda and I have been a team from the start which has really helped see us through some difficult life challenges. <br /><br />Thanks again.Gregg Koephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09349453216733070775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4312736954468978064.post-75983761299793728162015-03-21T19:31:48.296-03:002015-03-21T19:31:48.296-03:00One of the things that struck me from the start as...One of the things that struck me from the start as I began reading your blog, was the wonderful relationship that the two of you share. It's a rare and beautiful thing to behold! Congratulations on 28 years of shared life and love!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4312736954468978064.post-49680943115121382822015-03-21T00:13:01.847-03:002015-03-21T00:13:01.847-03:00No fancy wedding here. We were married outside on ...No fancy wedding here. We were married outside on a windswept foothill overlooking the eastern slope of the Rockies. The crocuses were just coming up. No fancy anniversary celebration either. I made pizza and we sat by the fire and ate it up.<br /><br />Way to go on the 35 years.Gregg Koephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09349453216733070775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4312736954468978064.post-70618426310996179412015-03-21T00:07:12.908-03:002015-03-21T00:07:12.908-03:00Our system teaches us to be aggressively materiali...Our system teaches us to be aggressively materialistic because we are what buy. It is how we keep score. Our life long brainwashing leads us to derive our identity from our stuff, and our ability to buy more. It is hard to break free from the cult of consumerism. <br /><br />Hopefully examples of people like you living simply successfully will help deprogram a few and make them consider the many advantages of such a lifestyle. I am sorry it didn't take with your ex-partner.Gregg Koephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09349453216733070775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4312736954468978064.post-69931733662324210332015-03-20T23:39:10.509-03:002015-03-20T23:39:10.509-03:00Thank you. It has been a wonderful adventure toget...Thank you. It has been a wonderful adventure together.Gregg Koephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09349453216733070775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4312736954468978064.post-88808768770703529162015-03-20T19:12:57.629-03:002015-03-20T19:12:57.629-03:00Happy anniversary, and many more! If all marriage...Happy anniversary, and many more! If all marriages were like Linda's and yours, and mine and my DH's (35 years and counting), we'd put the "fancy wedding" industry out of business!A. Mariehttp://janeaustensyr.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4312736954468978064.post-80189535794076601372015-03-20T19:05:28.993-03:002015-03-20T19:05:28.993-03:00Hi Gregg,
congratulations to you both, and wishin...Hi Gregg,<br /><br />congratulations to you both, and wishing you many more years of happiness together.<br /><br /> I 'married' someone (not legally, because women still cannot marry in Australia) who whilst wonderful in many respects, found my simple, frugal lifestyle a threat and a nuisance. For my part I felt suffocated by the constant barrage of gifts and 'stuff' making their way into my home. It would sound crazy to many, but I would lie awake at night feeling upset by the new toaster/gadget/clothing that had made into into my home, in spite of my protests that I didn't 'need' another thing, just her presence. I also didn't want to travel and eat out, and to many those things are important. <br /><br />I learned that unless values are truly shared no amount of compromise can make things work.<br /><br />Madeleine.xAussie Connoisseurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02668698720239626709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4312736954468978064.post-73530903709742208522015-03-20T16:22:49.326-03:002015-03-20T16:22:49.326-03:00Having two marriages behind me and absolutely no i...Having two marriages behind me and absolutely no intention of ever having a third, I am envious of your 28 years with your soul mate. Congratulations to you both!Melodeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14721175322595091905noreply@blogger.com