Imagine a life with fewer possessions
I wonder if you can
No need for clutter or excess
In a simple living plan
Imagine all the people
Enjoying just what they need.
I wonder if you can
No need for clutter or excess
In a simple living plan
Imagine all the people
Enjoying just what they need.
- my little ditty, with apologies to John Lennon
Imagining what we should do with our possessions is a question we all need to come to terms with, preferably before death so we don't leave finding the answers to others.
Stuff, I have found, is annoyingly persistent. Once acquired, it is difficult to get rid of.
In recent years even second hand stores have become very selective about what kind of stuff they are willing to take.
That's right - you may find you have trouble giving away your unwanted stuff.
And what is stuff that no one wants?
Generally we call that "garbage", and you may have to pay a fee to landfill it.
We pay to acquire stuff, pay again to maintain and store it, and finally pay one final time when we want to part with it.
I have concluded that the thing to do with stuff, unless it is doing important work in your life, is get rid of it as soon as possible, and eliminate the draw on precious life energy.
That is why one of my summer projects was filling my big black backpack and biking unwanted possessions out of the house to wherever will take them.
Returnable beverage containers went to the eco-centre. There I learned that the 125 flattened 1 litre juice tetra boxes in my pack would get shipped all the way to Asia for processing. That seems dumb.
This led Linda and I to question whether we need fruit juice in tetra packs, or if we need juice in our diet at all.
Now we have eliminated it from our pantry, to be replaced by actual fruit.
Unwanted clothes were also stuffed into The Big Black Pack of Liberation to be whisked away right our of our closet and our lives.
Those I biked down to a drop box in the grocery store parking lot. The clothes collected there are resold to benefit a local charity.
Next I cycled 3 coats to a neighbour that volunteered to make sure they were distributed to people that could use them.
I also cleaned out our home and garage and came up with 5 bags of recyclables. Those went to the curb and were picked up on the appropriate day.
A lot of people can't get stuff into their houses fast enough. They even move to bigger houses to have more room for more stuff.
I can't get rid of it fast enough, and it always feels awesome to be rid of it.
It is a work in progress, and we continue to unload the dead weight that holds us back. There always seems to be more, as if it spontaneously appears and hides until you notice it.
This is living better with less in action, and it feels like the right thing to do.
The quantity of our possessions are only beneficial to a point, beyond which they are only annoying anchors that hold us back.
I am always imagining fewer possessions. It is easy if you try.
YES to fewer possessions!! I've never really been a big consumer or shopper but as I've aged I've gotten rid of things that no longer serve me or fit in our current lifestyle such as crafts I no longer do, equipment I no longer use. It feels amazing!!0
ReplyDeleteWe get so attached to things that it is sometimes hard to let go, even if they are no longer needed. "I might still use that" gets in the way of "chuck it!" But if one can release the attachments, as you say, if feels amazing. So liberating.
Delete- Gregg
As you mentioned in your post, it's always a good idea to pause and remind yourself of the actual cost of not just buying an item, but of having to maintain, store, clean, upkeep, replace, and eventually discard it. A lot of times you'll realize the total cost far outweighs the initial purchase. Of course, you also have to weigh the physical labor and time of your life that you exchanged in order to make the money to then purchase it, not to mention the environmental cost of its production and the resources taken and pollution caused from it, but then it rotting in a landfill. Those things are never mentioned in the ads or commercials we see. We just see the people in a hyper-clean and stylish setting, with bright neon white smiles and the people living in some perfect utopia, all because they bought the product. And the stores make it "convenient" and easy for us to hand over our money to buy the item, but then we're left with the buyer's remorse, the debt, and all the aforementioned, unmentioned, responsibilities of it.
ReplyDeleteI like to purge items semi-regularly too. It may help to remind yourself every time you get an item that you should then donate one item you already have. That way you won't start accumulating more than you need or want.
You have effectively listed all the reasons I resist any impulses to buy anything. Nice summary. Thanks.
Delete- Gregg
Great post! I just finished "The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning" by Margareta Magnusson, borrowed from my local library. It's a quick read, sweet, and right in line with what you're sharing. Get rid of the crap, before you burden someone else with getting rid of it for you!
ReplyDeleteWe are always letting go of little (and not so little) things. We recently cleaned my husband's closet and WOW! We donated two big bags of clothes to the resale shop. I imagine some guy my husband's size is going to be thrilled when he finds that cache!
I embrace the fact that as I grow and change, the things I once used a lot aren't as important to me. Rather than holding on to my past self for dear life, I can release what isn't serving me any longer. It feels good.
Peace, Erin
That is a great title. I always feel better when I let stuff go, and it is a feeling that lasts.
Delete- Gregg